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"It's Not Like We're Scum, You Know"

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8:30am | It easily could have been me. 

The Library coffeehouse was a bit stuffy from the day's heati,  and even at 10 p.m. it was still warm enough outside for shorts. But the tarot-card reader was absent from her usual spot at the indoor table nearest the propped-open front door, and The Cure's "Three Imaginary Boys" was emanating quietly from the overhead speakers, so I stayed put.

This may be why I'm writing this right now instead of trying to figure out the best way to get egg off a laptop.

At about 10:30 p.m. my attention was drawn through the windowpane by a quick pair of hollow, liquidy pops: pok-pok. I thought one of the two women there had dropped a drink onto the sidewalk. Then I noticed what looked like large pieces of white confetti on their shirts, with a viscous fluid dripping off of them.

No one got a good look at the car from whence the eggs had comeii,  and the women — two hospital workers, one stopping to pick up a coffee before going to help transplant recipients — were left to come inside and clean themselves as best they could. "Why would someone do that?" they asked no one in particular. "It's not like we're scum, you know."

Though we can only speculate, the "why" doesn't seem all that elusive. They were two women together in front of what is widely thought of as a "gay coffeehouse." Consider also that there were two eggs, but the male/female couple at a table that was first in the car's line of fire were left unscathed, and it appears the specific targets were (to use the vernacular I imagine the egg-throwers employing as they congratulated themselves on a job well done) the "dykes."

It is both ironic and irrelevant that the victims were heterosexual — information I have only because the pair mentioned it while ruminating in the immediate aftermath of the attack. They didn't say this as if sexual preference mattered to them, or as if there were a greater injustice at heterosexuals being treated in such a shameful fashion; they were simply mulling over the possibilities. "It's just people being drunk and stupid," concluded the more talkative of the two, seemingly with too positive a view of human nature to wrap her mind around the likelihood that what befell her had been anything but random, unwilling to think that hatred in the hearts of her brothers and sisters could be so free-flowing, unable to let herself so there even as her eye began to swell from the evidence.

But I encounter no such difficulties when considering how low my fellow humans can go. As Sergio Macias, owner of Hot Java — another "gay coffeehouse"iii — told me for a story in the May print edition of Long Beach Post: "We have been the target of a few hate crimes — kids throwing eggs or water or soda from the street at our clientele. [Such events] are few and far between, but it does happen."

In the world at large it happens all the time, that and much, much worse. Homosexuals are, after all, the only group in the United States against whom there continues to exist legalized discrimination, with many Americans calling for more (e.g., the push for a Constitutional amendment banning same-sex partners from becoming lawfully wedded). Naturally, institutional bigotry stokes similar flames among the populace. If your government — both state and federal, in this case — communicates to you that a certain group of people is lesser than the rest of us, what's the big deal about putting them in their place by chucking a couple of eggs? Call it trickle-down hatred.

I have long harbored ambivalence about the logic of hate-crime legislation (though my devil's advocacy on the subject has always been half-hearted), reasoning that the idea(l) is to treat all members of society equally,iv  rather than having Crime A be deserving of greater punishment when perpetrated against Person B than against Person C. It's sound logic, as far as it goes.

But there is no question — none, zero, zilch — that we still live in a society and world where individuals are targeted for violence, etc., based on their perceived membership in a certain group.v  And no group is more targeted than homosexuals.

It could have happened to me, because unless you're lucky enough to be on the receiving end of my amorous advances, you have little way of knowing whether I'm gay. I'll never forget one of my first bits of political activism: attending an Act Up protest rally against then-Governor Pete Wilson for his veto of AB101, a proposed law that would have prevented institutional workplace discrimination against homosexuals. As I walked back to my car, a pickup drove past me with some yahoo standing in its bed. "Faggot!" he yelled. Then, receding down the wide Orange County avenue, he gazed at my expressionless face quizzically. "Are you a faggot?" he asked, undoubtedly unaware of his perfect buffoonery.

Hate-crime legislation will only ever penalize people like that, people like those who assaulted the hospital workers out in front of The Library on July 18, people like the murderers of Matthew Shepard. And it won't punish them for their feelings or beliefs, but only for their actions. So you certainly won't catch me crying if some poltroon busted for throwing eggs out of a speeding car is sentenced to more than the assuredly too meager punishment this sort of assault would draw if perpetrated for reasons unrelated to sexual preference.vi 

A year in county lockup might be a good start.vii  Does that sound harsh? I hope so. Harsh is what I'm going for. Until we get serious about this sort of behavior, expect more of the same. Even in Long Beach.

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i This sad event took place on July 18.
ii Disturbingly, a man seated outside seemed not to have made the slightest effort to do so.
iii We'll leave aside the question of how "gay" a coffeehouse (as opposed to, say, a club) can be. Sure, The Library is gay-friendly — but show me an indie coffeehouse in this city that isn't!
iv Not including merit-based distinctions for individuals, etc.
v In legal parlance, this is called belonging to a suspect class.
vi Or skin color, etc.
vii We could make room for these folks by releasing a batch of non-violent drug offenders. But that's another story. 

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Archived Comments (22)
Roy
Why on earth would you use the odious expression "sexual preference" in this post? Did you happen to mean sexual orientation? Or are you just ignorant?
Jake M
Good story. Not sure about the homophobic angle though...I had eggs thrown at me and my (mixed gender)group of friends outside Reno Room once. I guess they could hate gays and straight hipsters standing around with their girlfriends equally...or they just hate anybody not like them? Or more likely they are just a bunch of jackasses who get their rocks off throwing eggs at random people on the street, with no obvious bias? Who knows.
Eagle Eye
Gee, another gay agenda piece by Greggory. What a shocker.
Eagle Eye
Dude seriously, stop looking for opportunities to make yourself into a victim. I won't say "man up", but how about GROW up, and get a life.

As Jake stated, I too had an anonymous "attack" happen to me. When I was a little kid, some dudes on a pickup truck sprayed me with a fire hose. Where's MY sympathy? Can I write an article telling you all the whoa is me about MY life??

Yeesh

David
Maybe they were just breathers. The Library is one of the worst places in the city for addicts smoking illegally on the sidewalks. People need to breathe.
confused by comment
not sure what Roy is referring to. I don't regard "sexual preference" as "odious" or hateful expression. "sexual orientation" is how one self identifies... as straight, gay, bi, or whatever else. the "preference" as I see it, is a manifestation of the orientation
Jay
Where is the proof in this article that the egging was meant for homosexuals? Many people have been egged at one time or another. Quit whining.
Jim
Roy, yo beat me to it. What was otherwise a good article was ruined by using the incorrect term "sexual preference".
Greggory
I'd be very interested to have someone explain to me (as opposed to just saying it's so) why "sexual orientation" is preferable to "sexual preference." As far as the question of whether this incident was motivated by homophobia, as I say in the piece, I can't know for sure. I only know what appears more likely than not; and that, in any case, the point of the piece goes beyond this particular incident.
Julia
Yeah, I am not sure if this was specifically gay targeted either -- although it definitely could have been, but I'd say the "why" might be slightly more elusive than this article suggests. A few weeks ago around 10:45pm as I was crossing the street on 4th and Cherry some people threw what looked like wrapped up leftovers from their car at me -- it hit me in the leg and it hurt. The thing is I'm a young cute girl and I was with my very obviously male boyfriend, so I didn't really have any stereotypical conclusions to jump to. Is throwing crap at people from cars a new "thing" in LB?
Eagle Eye
it's definitely a "piece" alright... I'll agree with you there.

Again I ask the people of the LBpost, if other special interest groups can be allowed to use this "news" site to pump propaganda for THEIR agendas as well??

Or are gays the only ones that get that special privilege?

Fascinating paradox there, how a group that gets special privilege simultaneously uses it to whine that they are victims.

Laura612
I think it may be a trend in general... :( Last Thursday my friends and her two brothers had eggs thrown at them from a truck while they were riding their bikes down PCH in HB.
Roy
Greggory, the term sexual preference indicates that one's attraction to members of the same or opposite sex is a choice. A preference is something you can change. A sexual preference is, for example, whether you like to do it with the lights on or off, whether you like it on a bed or the floor. Whether you prefer blondes or brunettes, ribbed or smooth condoms, being high or being completely naked. In other words, a "preference" is typically minor and alterable. Our preferences in almost anything can and do change as we go through life, often many times. A preference is for vanilla rather than chocolate ice cream.
An orientation, on the other hand, is like your skin color. It's yours for good.
Same deal with how the bigots like to call being gay a "lifestyle." A lifestyle is living on a houseboat or being vegan.
Both "preference" and "lifestyle" are words used by the enemies of gays and lesbians to distort, lie about, and demean our lives.
Alamitos Beach Resident
I'm not really convinced the attack was a gay hate crime. The egg thrower probably intended to take out both tables but misjudged. I guess when you're trying to leave the scene in a hurry it's hard to judge your throw trajectory, especially out a moving car's window. Right?
confused by comment
I'm going to disagree with Roy here and say preference does not imply conscious decision. Because I prefer apple pie over cherry but it's not something I decided for any one reason; it's just how I feel. There are some of us in life that choose to eat pies they don't like. Others choose to say I tried me some cherry pie and it's not for me. i do love me a slice of apple pie though.
Greggory
Roy, apparently you're operating under the belief that words have inherent meaning, whereas I am of the "language is use" school. One of the problems with your position is presuming that your belief about the inherent meaning of a word IS its inherent meaning. But "orient" can be used in exactly the way you say "preference" must be used -- e.g., "The publishing business today must orient itself to the brave new world of Internet technology." Meanwhile, as indicated by another reader, a preference doesn't necessarily imply choice -- e.g., "I am someone who prefers bananas to peaches - the latter make me sick, in fact - although I wish I liked them both equally." I would encourage you to focus more on the message than the semantics.
Eagle Eye
"orientation" eh?

Did you hear that? All the pedos just clapped and shouted bravo!

John B. Greet
Good lord, people, Greggory is an opinionist and his columns are -with extremely rare exception- entirely opinion pieces. If you are looking for hard and objective news, this is not the place on this site to find it. If Greggory's opinions annoy you so much, perhaps the most constructive response for you might be to stop reading them.



Greggory views the world and our community through his own lense, just as I do, just as you do. Discussing differences of subjective opinion in a respectful and courteous manner benefits all who participate. Castigating others for their subjective opinions is pointless and counter-productive.



Greggory's opinions sometimes annoy the hell out of me, but I absolutely love the way he writes. He is a wordsmith in the truest sense of that word and agree with him or don't, he certainly can turn an artful phrase. So ease up on Greggory's subjectivity just a bit, won't you?



As to the bigger picture: Hatred can be a horrible emotion when inflicted upon the undeserving. I think some in our society most assuredly are deserving of hatred (child molesters, spouse abusers, etc) but members of our LGBT community most certainly are not among them.



I oppose *any* law that serves to extend government-managed rights and priveleges to one group of consenting adults who behave in a lawful manner while withholding them from another group of adults who are equally consenting and behaving no less lawfully. Such laws, Prop. 8 for example, have the effect of denying of equal protection under the law.



For the same reason, however, I oppose hate crimes legislation. A battery, is a battery, is a battery, and all batteries should be prosecuted in the same manner and assessed the same range of punishments, regardless of the motivations behind them. If some adult unlawfully uses force against the person of another adult, it shouldn't matter to us what the sex, race, national origin, or sexual preference *or* orientation are. All that should matter is that we (society) believe it is wrong do to commit such an offense (against anyone) and prosecute any offenders accordingly and then punish anyone who is convicted within a consistent range of consequences.



To do otherwise is to treat the victim of the so-called "hate-crime" differently in the eyes of the law. If such differential treatment under the law is wrong, then it is wrong at both ends of the spectrum and at every point in between and we should not seek to justify diverting from such an objective approach for subjective reasons.
Eagle Eye
Two things Greet -



#1 Greggory is lost when it comes to having any type of objectivity. He sees EVERYTHING through the lenses of his gay agenda glasses. So that isn't merely sharing "subjective opinion". That is blatantly spreading propaganda. Wonder how "accepting" you gays/liberals would be if a Christian were spouting their "subjective opinions" the same way. Dare I say there would be a wee bit of anger/outrage? lol

#2 If we're subjected to Greggory rambling off at the mouth cluelessly via Rainman style, then at the very least we can subject him to OUR "subjective opinions" as well. Dare I say we are a bit more reasonable/sane though?

John B. Greet
Ah, but Eagle Eye, no one subjects you to Greggory's columns but YOU.



As a rational, intelligent adult you make a conscious choice to subject *yourself* to Greggory's points of view every time you decide to read his columns.



It just seems a bit silly to me for some to decide to read Greggory, knowing full well who he is and how he views the world, and then spend so much effort castigating and excoriating him for what he has written.



Disagree, certainly. Dispute, definitely. Debate, absolutely. But why the insults and insolence? What constructive purpose do these serve? And if none, why resort to them?
Eagle Eye
Greet, obviously we assess some value to LB Post as a news source for our city. With that in mind, we are all "subjected" to the effects of Greggory's propaganda, whether we ignore it or not.

Again, if only you liberals were so "tolerant" when it comes to perspectives that are different than your own. Y'all PREACH this, and brow-beat everyone else to tolerate speakers such as this, yet when it is someone outside your clique, you all lose your minds.

Again, if a Christian were on here speaking aggressively spreading and promoting Christian ideals, dare I say you or others would not nearly be so "laid back".

And to answer your other question, I think some of us are just sick and tired of special interest groups playing the victim, when in reality, they are the aggressor, using a BLATANLY obvious passive-aggressive tactic, in order to push their special interest agenda/culture.

Basically, garbage is no longer being tolerated for being anything other than what it is - garbage.

John B. Greet
@ Eagle Eye: First, because you have chosen several times now to lump me in with the group you call "liberals," allow me to disabuse of that erroneous perception. I concsider myself to be a political conservative. I do not agree with all so-called Republican ideas and platforms, but primarily because some of those ideas and platforms have departed to some degree from truly conservative political ideology.

Now, all you seem to be doing is making excuses in an attempt to relieve yourself of your own personal responsibility for the news and commentary that you voluntarily *choose* to consume. No one forces you to read Greggory's columns, you choose to do this, and then you later try to claim that his words are somehow forced upon you. This is as false as it is irresponsible and you really should consider assuming more personal responsibility for the things you choose to read.

The only messages I preach are those of constitutional responsibility, limited government, and greater personal freedoms and individual liberties. Beyond those I do no preaching. I do not presume to force my lifestyle preferences upon others any more than I would have them force their upon me. I do not choose to denigrate them for their choices, just as I would not have them denigrate me for mine.

You are certainly entitled to your perception that special interest groups play the victim, when in reality, they are the aggressor, using a BLATANLY obvious passive-aggressive tactic, in order to push their special interesta genda/culture. But even if your perception is even partially accurate, why resort to insults and insolence in response?

They serve no constructive purpose. If it is your intent to serve a *constructive* purpose, then I believe you should avoid insults and insolence.

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